That’s right, there is a certain set of behaviors that is considered “correct” and others that are considered “incorrect.” I have found that by learning how to self-reflect and understand the different perspectives of self, I am able to become aware of the things that I am doing that I am not doing right. That way, I can be more in alignment with my actions, thoughts, and feelings.
The way to learn how to self-reflect is to self-reflect. So, instead of thinking about the things you are not doing right, you can think about how you are doing right. Like I said, this can be challenging because, for the majority of us, we have all sorts of “wrong” behaviors and attitudes. What is considered “wrong” will vary from person to person.
For me, self-reflection has always been a struggle. I don’t consider myself to be a very good person. I’m definitely not a good person who can control the things that I am doing. I’m not even a nice person. I have some really negative behaviors and attitudes, and they make me feel like a loser.
You can change a lot of things about yourself by focusing more on how you feel. The same goes with the other problems you have with yourself. Focus on the things you want to change and then go from there. I know this sounds corny, but I have been trying to do this since I was in middle school, and it has really helped me a lot. Take control of your life. Stop being a victim. There are worse things that happen to us than having problems with ourselves.
I’ve found that I have a tendency to focus more on my problems than my problems. I can’t stop focusing on how I feel, so I get very defensive when I see comments like, “How are you?” I’m not going to respond to them, but I’m sure it’ll drive them away. Once I started focusing on how I feel about myself, I was able to change a lot about myself, and I can’t believe they didn’t notice that.
Many people get very defensive when they feel like they’re being ignored. They don’t realize that they’re usually simply making excuses for why they’re not responding to their own comments. Don’t worry, its easy to find the excuses in your own head.
I’m sure that some of you are thinking to yourself “but he’s right, everyone has an excuse why they’re not responding.”. That’s true, but it’s also true that it’s hard to change ourselves when we’re not aware of who we are. After you understand this, you’ll discover that you have to rely on yourself to change yourself.
A simple simple thing to do, for sure..
It’s a good point, but I think the biggest problem with using excuses is that they become self-fulfilling prophecies. While you may have a valid point about why you’re not responding, you also have a valid point that you’re not responding at all. That’s why it’s so important to acknowledge when you’re not responding to your own comments.
I think its important to understand that when we say or write an excuse, we are talking about something that occurred in the recent past. For example, if I said that I had a great weekend, then I am talking about something that happened a few months ago. In this example, we’re talking about what happened a few months ago, so we are talking about a past event.